Old Friends, New Club: Club Paradise in Amsterdam

Partying with friends is the absolute best!

We took some time to sneak away from our wedding party in Amsterdam to do what we like to do best, party naked! This time we were able to talk some of our best friends into joining us. It’s so fun to be able to introduce new people to the lifestyle. We made sure that they were the type of people who were open to these situations. You MUST be open minded to enjoy what these type of clubs have to offer.

The Facilities

The layout is nice and the interior decoration is top notch. We loved the huge open room and the 360 bar in the middle. There are stripper poles all around and the couches are so comfortable. The DJ was nice compared to other overseas mix masters. Your tour will reveal all sorts of nooks and crannies. It’s probably the biggest swinger club we’ve ever seen. I’m talking multiple floors, indoor pool separate from Jacuzzis, rooftop lounge, and tons of private, themed rooms. I’m thinking on a special busy night, like a holiday, this place might be one of the wildest parties you can imagine.

We went on a Friday night and was hoping for something wilder, but it just never got over the “hump” that night. It wasn’t dead but more like there just wasn’t enough people there to fill out the place. The party suffered from its large common room and numerous play areas. Almost as if the club is meant to be filled or always destined to suffer the same fate. It was still a welcoming atmosphere though. We talked to some nice couples and spent most of our time wandering around and discovering new areas. The single guy ratio was a major problem. I mean it was like 75% single dudes that night. I don’t know if that is an often occurrence. There is very minimal staff present outside of the main room, making these single dudes kind of a problem.

Our Experience

The friends that came with us were exactly the perfect type of people to join us that night. I’ve known them both for a long time and they’re as open minded as they come. They were only slightly intimidated by the idea of disrobing and getting intimate in front of strangers. This didn’t stop them when the time was right. The four of us decided to split up and head into two adjoining rooms. We met a fun couple in there and did some lite exploring. She was a bit reserved but couldn’t help herself when V got riled up. V has that effect on people.

Meanwhile our friends moved to the sex swing in the middle of all of the private rooms and started to gather an audience. We stuck our heads up every now and then to peep out the window at the show they were putting on. He had her laying down in the sex swing with his back turned to the crowd. I’m not sure he knew that he had a growing crowd at his back until near the finish.

They learned how to say no to onlookers that want to participate, which is something every swinger must learn early to have a good time. There should never be any pressure to share your partner with anyone. You should never have to answer for your decisions or compromise with strangers. Always communicate your boundaries with each other before you walk in; even if you’re an experienced couple. Your desires might be different from time to time and that’s okay. Communication is the most important fundamental concept for any couple in the lifestyle.

The four of us stayed until close, which was around four or five o’clock. We were pretty drunk by the end and the Uber was taking forever. The people pouring out of the club started to stare a little awkwardly. It started to feel a little Hostel-ly. Luckily, the Uber arrived just when we were at peak worry and we went on our way to discuss the happenings inside the club. Our friends had a great time as did we. It wasn’t the craziest time by any means, but it wasn’t a bad time which is great for newcomers. Introducing new people to the lifestyle is fun and exciting. We would love to do it again as long as the time is right and the people are ready!

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www.club-paradise.nl/
info@club-paradise.nl +31 (0)20 637 34 16
26 A, 1021 KE Amsterdam, Netherlands